‘Dos’ and ‘Donts’

Düsseldorf (North Rhine-Westphalia) Escort

When talking to me, these are a few things to consider;

1. Will you send me pictures?

2. Will you verbally call me?

3. Do you allow bookings at short notice (<12 hours)?

4. Will you meet with me prior to an appointment for free?

5. What do you like to talk about? How should I engage you in conversation when we meet?

6. Do you have sex with Virgins?

7. How much German do you speak?

8. Will you come to see me in my house?

9. Will you tell me your real name?

10. Will you sit and text with me for hours before an appointment?


1. Will you send me pictures?

No. I am verified on all* escort advertising websites I am listed on. Meaning I have proved to them that I am a real person through their human validation process. *the ones that have a verification process, I have.

Why: If I sent “selfies” to everyone that would give me a bad professional image, and take me a lot of time that you haven’t paid for. For me, it is the equivalent of you asking your tax accountant to send proof of his credentials through email rather than showing up to his office to see it on the wall.

I only have so many hours in a day, and I don’t have to time to randomly get into some lingerie, find some good lighting and take some photos for you. And the next man. And the next man. And the next man… you get the point :). If you are unsatisfied with my 300+ images linked from my website, then you have some incredibly high standards and I cannot satisfy that, so possibly it’s best to find another girl.


2. Will you verbally call me?

First time clients: No.

If you require to hear my voice, I have a mailbox message setup with my voice. Also, my voice can be heard in a huge amount of videos on my porn channels. I will not sit on the phone to “chat to you” before meeting. I find this rude as you have not paid for that service. 

Regular clients: Yes*.

If you are a repeat customer and want to chat to catch up, this can be a provided service if you are having a bad day and just want someone to talk to for a little while. *Though I much prefer sending messages as my main means of communication.


3. Do you allow bookings at short notice (<12 hours)?

First time clients: No.

If you message me drunk at 3am, no I will not get out of my pyjamas, pay to travel for an hour, just to find you passed out and refusing to pay. I apologise that you did not successfully pick up at the club you were at, please go to a brothel where the girls are waiting for you, its just easier. I put these rules down for everyone, no matter how charming you are. I am a human, I have a life. There are millions of other girls also :).

Regular clients: Yes.

If I have met you before, you have a form of “reputation” earned. I acknowledge if you have paid before, you are likely to pay again and so will be unlikely to be unreliable. If able, I will change my schedule to appease you at late notice, but this cannot always happen.


4. Will you meet with me prior to an appointment for free?

First time clients: No.

If you require a coffee date before meeting, this is what you have chosen to do with your time. Whatever you do at work, you are still paid for the hours you are at work. If you believe in capitalism, you believe in also paying me for my time. If you want to chat with a girl for free in a coffee shop, maybe strike up a conversation with a stranger, you never know what might happen :).

Regular clients: Yes.

Sometimes I will make an allowance. Example; you have booked me for a two hour service, twice before. On the third date you inquire as to whether I would like to meet up and have a bite to eat and a coffee nearby your hotel before we have sex. If the cafe portion is approximately an hour or less, I will not charge you for this part, only for the normal appointment in the hotel of two hours. This is something I offer if I enjoy conversing with you and feel you wont become a scaling freebie service (1 hour coffee date, 2 hour dinner, 3 hours at the movies, as an example of scaling out of control freebies). The free service must be scaled to the overall date. If you book me overnight and you want to have breakfast and it goes over the 12 hours, I am not going to charge you for the excess time. If you are booking me for your 10th appointment and want to have a nice dinner date before the usual event, I obviously won’t charge you for that because I likely want to reward you for loyalty. There is no set rules. It is down to each individual person. But yes, this is something that I often offer.


5. What do you like to talk about, how should I engage you in conversation when we meet? (not through phone)

Please read this advertisement for some tips: Red Paramour


6. Do you have sex with Virgins?

Yes. As long as you have considered that you are losing your virginity with an escort, and are comfortable doing so then it is your right to see me like anyone else.


7. How much German do you speak?

Mein Deutsch is nicht gut. I can say a good lot of vocabulary, but my sentence structure isn’t great. Over the next year I should be fluent to a reasonable level. But as of right now, you cannot “speak to me in Deutsch”. Though if you try, I can probably get some grasp of what you are trying to say, but will struggle to respond. In most cases, your Deutsch will be better than my English.


8. Will you come to see me in my house?

First time clients: No.

1. Your paying me 150€ at minimum, if you can’t spend another 50€ on a hotel… it’s unlike you will also pay my 150€.

2. I don’t have a physical death wish, apologies for not wanting to possibly die. You personally cannot vouch for every stranger on the planet. If I make allowances for you, I also have to make allowances for ‘every other man’. Escorts end up dead on the news in every country in the world, I don’t need that risk. In a hotel, I can scream or someone will find my body at least to tell my parents and friends. I don’t need to risk my safety for you to save 50€ on a hotel room.

Regular clients:

If I have met you before. I can evaluate whether you likely are going to do something against my wishes to me and make an accurate conclusion. I can be wrong of course. No human is perfect. Though, to some degree I can work out whether you are a risk to my safety. If you wish to see me again at your home, after meeting me at a hotel, I will tell you whether this is okay or not. But it is something I offer.


9. Will you tell me your real name?

1. I am not your girlfriend. If you are uncomfortable with seeing an Escort, please do not see one and obtain a girlfriend whom is not working when you are together.

2. If I told everyone my name whom asked, I would be out of a job. Surely you would rather fuck me than know my name right? Yes, that is the ultimatum.

This is not rude, this is something you are not paying for. To put it into another perspective, it’s like asking the manager of a hotel to clean the bathrooms. They will explain to you that it’s not their job position. I am an escort, it is not my job to let you encroach on my life outside of my business. Similar to you also not taking that manager of the hotel out to walk dogs in the park together.


10. Will you sit and text with me for hours before an appointment?

First time clients: No.

99% of the time I talk to a client a lot before a booking. They don’t show up. I feel like some men just want a girl to talk to for free, rather than the actual sex. I feel like I’m getting cucked. It’s very annoying. So I don’t do it. I try to be as efficient as possibly in text to try and get an actual booking. Then we can talk for as long as you like in your booking hours.

Regular clients: Yes.

I commonly text to check up on client’s I have seen even once before. I tend to just chat like I am a friend, and inquiring about your general life and hearing how you are doing. Sometimes this is out of politeness, sometimes this is because you have crossed my mind and I genuinely give a shit how you are.

Though after a few months have passed since the last appointment, if a new appointment has not been remade I may not find the same amount of time to upkeep the communication.

Please warn me if you do not want this service for any reason. I will not ask why, as it is not to everyone’s preference.

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